to have what is not yours..

how?

can anybody, tell me, pleeeeeeease?

since it's less than a month to go, until i can get my ass back to my college, i'd looooove to know, how would i have something that is not mine. but i would loooooooove to make it mine.
people would laugh when they hear this. or worse, they'd ended up being angry at you, for insisting something that is not yours. at least not at that time.

why would women terribly fighting against polygamy? why would people feel sickened by the idea of a young, fair lady marrying an old, aged man who already got himself grandchildren? why would youngsters object the sincere intention of their old man, who has lost her wife few years before, replacing their late mother for someone their age?


people seem to ignore a word, a feeling, we call loneliness.

some men feel like being with another woman in his life, altogether with his current wife, means that he's needed. and to make it look better and nicer, he'd tied the 'other' woman, to be his second wife. it's not about sex all the time. perhaps he felt like he's being neglected when he's with the first wife. or perhaps he would like not to burden his first love with too much problems. enough with the kids, she must handle. he needed someone that he could talk to, and at the same time, keeping it for herself, knowing that spreading the words means she had brought shame to her husband. and his first wife.

some ladies found their happiness they've been trying to find all these years, within someone with a more veteran look on his face. much to say about the physical attraction. but what do they really care about? the look? perhaps not. i bet the experience. young men are world widely known as something new, and less equipped with experience in handling women. elders seemed to be more romantic, more sensitive towards ladies they attracted to. they are concern about the changes in her mood, her dress, her feelings.. also, not to be forgotten. how these men are much more independent. convincing these ladies to rely on them, not the other way round. but then, more and more women in this world, prefer being independent, just the way they like it. not relying on anyone, but themselves.

some people, disgusted by the idea of their old man, who is the grandpa to their children, is getting married with a women, their age. to them, they can take care of their old man, the best way he'd ever dreamed of. to them, there is not need to replace their beloved mother. there is no need to even think of another marriage, when there is a devotion to be taken care by his daughter who is not interested in getting married at her age, 53. so, why the fuss? why did he has to choose a women, same age as his own daughter, to take care of him? they forgot one thing. a wife and a daughter have a very wide difference. a daughter would not, in an appropriate way, bath her father. naked? i don't think so. but for a wife to do so, it's not something against the law of nature. it's better. a man need someone to caress him with love. especially at his golden age, when he got no money to chase, time to waste and love to share. how in the world, would his daughter do that? being married for decades, sleeping not alone, and all of sudden, he is now solo. again. at the age of 70's, i don't think he'd catch up the wave of life any longer. he need a companion. someone to talk to. about something private. something that only a wife would understand. only a wife would agree to hear. to take notice of. to even bother to stay beside him and listen. and that, is something a daughter, could never do. even if she tries her best. it's... different. in a way or two.

so. now. she took someone's husband, and make him her husband. she took someone's grandfather, and make him her husband. and she took someone's father, and replaced their late mother, became the new one. younger version. o.O

and all those, used to belong to someone else. and i, will take someone's son, brother, grandson, cousin, nephew, to be my husband.

guys, to have something that is not yours, is not necessarily wrong. or unethical. it's not irregular either. it's.. an essence.